Happy Birthday Carl – April 27

Well it is hard to believe, but Carl would have been sixty eight (68).  He was born April 27, 1941, in Circleville, Ohio and died November 7, 1988 in or near Washington Courthouse, Ohio.   Carl Edward Cox was the 2nd oldest child and 2nd son of Robert and Goldie Cox.

Carl was always a bit of a rennegade.  He loved to go his own way and seemed to enjoy life to the fullest. I do remember him getting a few punishments at school.  One time he stood up to some teacher.  There was something to do with him getting the paddle at school and getting it again from Daddy when he got home for getting into trouble at school.  I know that once he got a licking with a light cord.  Lordee, we all were so upset about that.  Daddy was bound and determined to make him mind.

I remember one time when Carl, as a teenager, had gotten into something and ran off into the field.  Daddy drove his car down the lane and was standing up on top of the car looking for him.  Carl was a character that everyone seemed to love.  My husband, Pat, still talks about Carl being a lovable type rascal.  

The funny thing is that you would have thought with all those lickings, he and Daddy would have been enemies.  But I remember them hunting and butchering and doing all kinds of things together as Carl became a man. 

We all remember the night Carl saved our lives.  He came home from a date sometime late at night.  As he is going up the stairs without lights and as the dog (can’t remember if it was Tippy or Ginger) was running back and forth, Carl felt the stair wall was hot.  The inside of the chimney was on fire and as we all know, Carl woke us all up and got us all to get out of there.  Some kids were a little reluctant to get up.  I think Gary almost got left up there.  Things are a little fuzzy, but I know we all got out alive, except the birds.  We know if Carl had not gotten home when he did, we all may not have made it out.  One thing for sure, Mommy did not want Carl to get water on her waxed floor.  I do remember sitting in the car with the kids watching the house burn while the fire department was squirting water.  I think they did as much damage as the fire.  

Someday, I hope we all take time to write our memories of the fire, but this is a tribute to CARL. 

Over the years, I do remember him being such a hard worker.   He gave all the men a chance to work for or with him, but took no crap or laziness from anybody.

 

Tommy with Larry and Carl.

Carl over to the far left on a Sunday School outing with Aunt Ethel’s Sunday School class.  I remember being driven there in the back of a truck.  Don’t miss Shirley with her lady like leg position right out in front. 

Carl 14 years old
Carl 14 years old

 Cox Gang 1979

Cox Gang – 1979
Carl with Grandma and Grandpa Cantrell in Kentucky
Carl with Grandma and Grandpa Cantrell in Kentucky

I hope everybody wishes “Carlie” a Happy Birthday.  He is probably up there having a great time laughing and cutting up with them right now.

I added this next part from Carl’s page just to keep it over here on the blog part too. 

Carl’s early childhood was spent mostly in Fairborn, Ohio.  Here is a picture of Carl with Susy Bolin with her arm around her cousin, Annabelle Bolin’s daughter, Cathy Bolin.  Annabelle is Daddy’s sister, Ethel’s daughter, our cousin.  Carl was a skinny kid, wasn’t he.

We spent a lot of time with Annabelle and Bobby Bolin when we lived in Fairborn, in the Holten houses.

Susy, Cathy, Carl

 

 

 

 

Carl joined the Army in …………..

 

 

Married Emma Joyce Leeth in …….

Joyce and Carl Wedding

 

Robert Goldie Joyce Carl at Carl and Joyce Wedding

Carl and Joyce had 3 children

Grandpa Cox at the fair

It was July of 1971 or 1972, Great Uncle Anon came and stayed with us for 2 weeks.  Grandpa and Grandma Cox came down to visit us in Washington Court House, Ohio.  The Fayette County fair was going on.  Uncle Tom Pat and Aunt Sharon Maynard met us all there.  Aunt Sharon dared Grandpa Cox to ride on the super loop.  Well, he was not going to let her call him a chicken.  So they got on the ride, they were hollaring and screaming.  My dad (Carl), mom(Joyce), Tom Pat, Grandma, Uncle Anon and all of us kids were at the bottom laughing.  When the ride went upside down, Grandpa Cox’s dentures, cigarettes, lighter, and wallet all fell on the ground.  When they got off the ride, the guy had to keep everybody off the ride until Grandpa Cox could collect all his things.  The only thing he had a problem finding was his teeth.  They fell into somebody’s lemon shake that was standing there wondering what all the hupla was about.  Because we had such a crowd of people watching those 2 on that ride.  When Grandpa and Aunt Sharon got off the ride, She was puking and he was dizzy.  But it was such a hoot!!  Everybody had such a good time!!!

Robert Cox with Brothers and Sisters

Dad, Robert Cox with adult brothers and sisters

Here are pictures of Daddy, Robert Cox, with his brothers and sisters.  The old one is circa 1925.  Line up is Robert, Ethel, Edra, Loyd, Myrtle. 
The line up as adults (1970) is Loyd, Ethel, Myrtle, Robert, Edra, Edison.  The picture as adults was taken when all were together for the funeral of Edison’s son who was killed in a construction accident.  He was digging in a ditch which collapsed in on him. 
Edison was not shown on the old picture.  He was the youngest child and was given up for adoption to the Laneys. 

 

 

 

Uncle Walter

Vickie is correct in her story. I remember the perfect bow hanging from the waist, loose but perfect.

I believed that if I yelled really loud he would hear me I just new he could, but no he could not. We would make signs with motion for him to eat, or close our eyes to tell him we were going to bed. We would walk down that lane with the most beautiful trees on both sides making a tunnel when it was full of leaves. He would find Preying Mantis’s and  Walking Sticks.  Dad could really communicate with him, sign.

Uncle Walter

I was only 5 or 6.  I can’t believe I remember Uncle Walter.  I’m not sure, but I think he was from Dad’s side of the family.  He came to visit us when we lived at the Linkhart house. He had a heart of gold and wasn’t a fat man, but he had a bowling ball belly.  He couldn’t speak or hear, but he was funny.  We all tried to play horse shoes and  he usually won.

One morning I was getting ready for school and I had a dress with ties and everyone was busy except Uncle Walter.  He tied a beautiful bow that instead of encircling snugly around the waist, it was hanging around my butt like a bustle.  I showed him to try to tighten.  Still not snug.  Needless to say I wasn’t happy, but I remember going off to school as was.  (At least I hope that’s what I did…it’s a bit vague.)  He was a very kind man.  He was a keeper!

Clay Cantrell – Goldie’s Brother

Clay Cantrell- Mom's Brother
Clay Cantrell- Mom's (Goldie) Brother
Here is a picture of Clay Cantrell, in front of an ambulance.  Don’t have any idea when or why.  Wonder what relationship the ambulance played in his life. 
Maybe we can locate Gwendolyn, his daughter.  I do remember, when I was 10, I went on a trip with Gwen, Clay, and Janny, Clay’s wife.  We drove to somebody’s house. I think it was Johnny Vanover’s mother and father’s house in Kentucky or it could have been Janny’s parents.  Clay and Janny lived in Dayton.  I remember Gwen was studying tap dancing and demonstrated her tap dancing.  She even had her costume on.  I thought that was pretty.  I remember sitting on the porch and feeling so homesick. 
I know Clay was shot.  I don’t know the date nor for sure who shot him.