Blog hint about posting and publishing

Hey everybody, this is getting better and better. Just want to remind everybody that when you are finished writing your post or page, be sure to not only save, but to also click on the publish button over beside the save button to the right of the post box. This makes it show up on the blog when you write it.

Otherwise it shows the post as being written when I actually go in and check. Also, feel free to put your categories and tags so everything is easily found.

Becoming a woman at 9yrs old! Not literally, just physically!

Back in the old days…I tried to talk w/Diane Beverly about my horrid disease…(she was 2 yrs older), but it just didn’t register, I needed more information.

When I was just 9 yrs old I thought I had an incurable disease and was dying.  I recall telling Mom and then Shirley came to the “rescue”.  (Myrtle was attending nursing school at Bethesda, so Shirley was on duty.)  I was absolutley mortified when she showed me a diaper strung up by a rubberband!  I was supposed to be cured by this contraption?!  Needless to say I finally got the picture and survived.

The birth of Marnee

These weren’t the best days for me, but I still remember.  Shirley and I were birth coaches.  We were called early in the morning and went to see what was up.  Martha was actually working and exercising in early stages of labor.  Shirley, Ricky, and I went to the hospital and everything went very quickly.  Never having kids, I was just amazed.  Martha was sort of OK and then came “transition”…literally!  I saw Martha’s face turn shades of purple I’d never seen before.  Then at the last part of the birth process, there was a turd that plopped on the doctor’s shoes, then Marnee was born.  It sounds weird, but it really was beautiful.  Ricky took Shirley and me to his house, but stopped on the way and bought each of us a rose.  I don’t know how Martha felt, but I was exhausted.

How Martha and I loved each other as kids!

I came home from school just in the first grade to discover that Martha had chicken pox…10 days later so did I.

My first experience with “pot” and Martha,  As kids do instead of playing w/toys, we were playing w/a big soup pot.  I promised Martha I’d give her a turn when I was finished, running and sitting in the pot.  I took a longer turn than Martha wanted, so she hurls a rock at me which landed sort of between my eyes.  I have a hint of the scar today, fifty years now.

Well into my teen years, I was afraid of the dark.  Even as late as the Cornstalk Rd house I remember leaving my bed and getting into bed w/Martha.  She hated that and but always gave in (even after I layed in the floor for a bit). 

Given the fact that I was once afraid of the dark, it is hard to believe I now live totally alone and go outside in the dark without a thought…what was I thinking?!  There usually aren’t any boogie men in the dark.  I’ve discovered most of the bad men in the clear blue daylight!

Grandma and Grandpa – Amon and Nora Cantrell

Mom's Parents, Amon and Nora
Mom's Parents - Amon and Nora
Wonder what year.  How old were they.  They didn’t have grey hair and I doubt they dyed their hair.
It is funny, but this is the way I always remember them. 

Grandpa, Goldie, Roger, Martha, Grandma, Vickie, Myrtle - 1966
Grandpa, Goldie, Roger, Martha, Grandma, Vickie, Myrtle - 1966
I am pretty sure this was Grandma, Grandpa and Roger on a visit to Ohio when I was home from the Army.  Don’t know which house.  Hope Vickie or Martha can remember where we lived when you were this age.

Grandma and Grandpa - Nora and Amon Cantrell
Grandma and Grandpa - Nora and Amon Cantrell
Here is another picture of Grandma and Grandpa standing at the back of their house.  I know the well is back there too.  They don’t look much different – just a little older.  I do hope I can go back through some of my original pictures and match up some dates.

Vickie and Anita Drawing Water at Grandpa's Well in KY
Vickie and Anita Drawing Water at Grandpa's Well in KY
I know we can find the date for this and I think I have a picture of Grandpa helping Vickie and Anita at the well.

Grandma, Grandpa, Carl
Grandma, Grandpa, Carl
Carl visiting Grandma and Grandpa.  Not sure when this was either.  Obviously, a little older. 

Clay Cantrell – Goldie’s Brother

Clay Cantrell- Mom's Brother
Clay Cantrell- Mom's (Goldie) Brother
Here is a picture of Clay Cantrell, in front of an ambulance.  Don’t have any idea when or why.  Wonder what relationship the ambulance played in his life. 
Maybe we can locate Gwendolyn, his daughter.  I do remember, when I was 10, I went on a trip with Gwen, Clay, and Janny, Clay’s wife.  We drove to somebody’s house. I think it was Johnny Vanover’s mother and father’s house in Kentucky or it could have been Janny’s parents.  Clay and Janny lived in Dayton.  I remember Gwen was studying tap dancing and demonstrated her tap dancing.  She even had her costume on.  I thought that was pretty.  I remember sitting on the porch and feeling so homesick. 
I know Clay was shot.  I don’t know the date nor for sure who shot him.