Easter Memories Past and Present with Pictures

Larry, Bobby, Carl Williams, Gary
Larry, Bobby, Carl Williams, Gary
Gary, Carl Williams, Bobby, Martha, Vickie – Easter 1960 (I used to love making clothes for the girls.  Here they are in blue coats I made in 1960 – Linkhart house.)
Vickie, Myrtle, Martha - Easter 1965
Vickie, Myrtle, Martha – 1965, in their Easter clothes made by Myrtle.
Martha, Jeff, Myrtle, Vickie – 1966

Martha, Jeff, Myrtle, Vickie - 1966

(Here is that white dress I originally made for me and passed to Vickie when she got to wear hose instead of anklets.  I don’t remember that issue, but I remember the dress and there is little Jeff – so cute in his little plaid jacket and knee socks. I think this was at the Ferguson house.)

 Hope everyone really did have a memorable Easter 2009.  Yes, the memories are good.  I remember as a young girl always helping Mommy make Easter baskets for the kids.  We built them from scratch.  We would, of course, color eggs with the kids.  Every kid had their own egg or eggs they had colored with their own name on it.  Then Mommy would buy a few bags of jelly beans, yellow chicks, chocolate eggs, and some candy kisses, and usually a little bigger chocolate bunny for each basket.  Then after the kids went to bed we would put the eggs with the names into the baskets and add the goodies.  After all the baskets were put together we would hide them someplace in the house. 

Then, on Easter morning the kids went looking for their basket.  Then most of us kids got all dressed up and went to church.  There was always an Easter Egg hunt at church.  I remember most of these were related to the Fairborn Enterprise Baptist Church.  Someplace I do have pictures of Martha and Vickie and Mrs. Jean Bates, a Sunday School teacher and family friend, out in the field looking for eggs.  I must find those pictures and add them later. 

Then after the whole Church thing, we would go back home for one of those big Sunday dinners, pretty much as Carla Jo describes.  We usually had another egg hunt.  Daddy found great pleasure in hiding those eggs so those kids would have to work to find them.  That was a lot of fun. 

This year, 2009, I did a couple of Easter activities just because my Mother-in-law is with us.  Usually the Italians make special things at Easter.  Pat and I took Mrs. Sorge over to John and Nancy’s where there were about 20 people gathered to watch Johnny, Donny and Cheryl make the Easter Ham Pies.  They made 10 of them so every family took one home.  We talked and ate.  It was fun – but oh what a heart attack waiting to happen – eggs, cheese, and more cheese in those pies. 

Then I helped Mrs. Sorge make what they call Easter Spinach pies.  Basically, it is a delicious spinach mixture of cured olives, garlic and spinach in a pie dough piece folded over.  That really is good and not too bad for the heart.  Then we made these orange ricotta cheese pies which are more of a dessert.  Again, very good but oh so bad for the heart.

Then on Easter, we went to Pat’s cousin Dickie, the judge’s house for Easter Brunch which is more eggs, sausage, etc.  Then later in the day, we went to Barbara Fratto’s for Easter dinner which was more of the same with some added on ham, shells, meatballs, salads, etc.  I would venture to guess this would not be a good week to check cholesterol levels.

Well, I have so many more old memories to write too, but I must get going.  Easter is a little sad for me because I would love to be home when Kim and Martha and Shirley and whoever else gets together to color the eggs.

Jayden, Daphne, Madelyn 2009

Jayden, Daphne, Madelyn Easter 2009

Abbie Easter 2009

Abbie Easter 2009

Bobby and Vickie

Bobby and I were close in age and it seemed like we fought all the time over anything.  My first memory was Bobby being at fault in braking the leg of my infamous ballerina doll.  He just wanted to upset me and decided to try and take her away from me…I wasn’t having that and thus her broken leg.  ( I bandaged her leg and as some of you know, I have her still today and I will get her picture on this site soon.)

Going through the teen years is never easy, but Bobby made fun of my blemishes, my short clothes, and anything else he could think of to make me cry.  We would fight and chase each other around the stove and around the house.  I can’t believe we didn’t kill one another, but we loved each and figured that out as we got older.  One of the funniest things was when he brought Joy home for the first time.  Joy was pretty, tall, and had legs that went on forever.  Her skirt was so short!  Bobby never made fun of my clothes again.

Around 1980, I took a business trip to New York.  Bobby was working in NY at the time and we made plans to meet at some O’something club.  I had 3 friends who joined me.  On the way through Times Sq, we we rerouted because there was a bomb scare.  We walked like we had no cares and arrived at the club.  Bobby was there w/some of his guys and was so glad to see me.  We danced (I’m not a dancer, but Bobby always led you like you felt you looked good on the floor.  His comment to me was, “god it’s good to see someone (girl) he wasn’t afraid of touching”.)  Aids had just become epidemic and he was really nervous.  My co-workers left early and Bobby said he’d get me back to the hotel safely.  When the night was over, Bobby and I got in a cab and even though his hotel was on the way to mine, he rode w/me to my hotel to make sure I was safe.

We made plans to take the train to Philadelphia and visit Myrtle and Pat.  I had my first experience of being accousted when getting out of a cab and having someone try to grab our bags, just so they could get a tip…that didn’t work, but it was interesting to see Bobby take control.  All I could think is that we could be shot!

It was such a welcome visit.  Although Myrtle and Pat aren’t drinkers, they always have tons of liquor left over from parties.  We got our hands on a “drink recipe book” and started to make as many of the concoctions as possible.  We made something that was pink and Myrtle put it to her lips, but that was that.  It was a great visit and I definately knew Bobby cared for me.  “All brothers and sisters fight…it really doesn’t mean a thing”.

Happy Birthday to Vickie and Larry on January 12

Larry – born 1949!  Oh My Goodness!

He can’t be the BIG 60!

Then there is Little Vickie born in 1954. 

She can’t be 55 – she is too little!!

Larry and Vickie sharing birthday in 1981
Larry and Vickie sharing birthday in 1981

Hope you both have a Happy Birthday

 

 no matter what in 2009!

 Aren’t Memories Fun!

Larry 2 years old     Larry about 2 years old  
Shirley, Mom, Myrtle, Bobby, Dad, Larry
Shirley, Mom, Myrtle, Bobby, Dad, Larry

This must be about 1954.

Vickie 6 years old
Vickie 6 years old
Larry, Bobby, Carl Williams, Gary
Larry, Bobby, Carl Williams, Gary
Mom Vickie Bessie
Mom, Vickie at 7 months, Bessie
Mom holding Vickie and Bessie's dog
Mom holding Vickie and Bessie's Pekingese

Some Old Pictures

Three Little Cox Brothers, Bobby, Larry, Gary Have no idea where this was, but it was so cute!

Three Little Cox Brothers, Bobby, Larry, Gary 

  

1958 - Bobby, Gary, Goldie, Larry, Tommy, Martha, Thelma, Myrtle, Vickie
1958 - Bobby, Gary, Goldie, Larry, Tommy, Martha, Thelma, Myrtle, Vickie

1958, I think this was in the house that burned.  I have on a dress that Mom had taken me to Dayton to get for the school year.  That also is when we got my coat with the pom-pom ties.  I was too neat and hung it in my closet.  Everything was burned on one side as they hung in the closet.  The closet was near the chimney that caught fire. 

In 1961, this looks like a bunch of little geniuses at work.  Not sure at what!  It must have been on a Sunday after church.  Vickie and Martha look all dressed up.

Bobby, Vickie, Martha, Gary at the Linkhart House
Bobby, Vickie, Martha, Gary at the Linkhart House 1961

Some Bobby pictures for Joseph – many more to follow

Bobby and Gary in front of Pat and Bessie Miracle's house on Superior St in Wrightview, Ohio
Bobby and Gary in front of Pat and Bessie Miracle
Here’s a picture of Bobby and Gary in front of Pat and Bessie Miracle’s house on Superior St in Wrightview Hts, Ohio.  Their house was across the street from the Holten properties. 
Of course Pat and Bessie had a nicer and bigger house.  They had no kids and always seemed to want to adopt Bobby.
Oops! Have to go find a picture of Pat & Bessie and some dates, etc.
More later.
I just have time to put this one more picture.  Will put more later.  I have to go back and write birthdays and dates down for all of us so I can get the dates right on some of these memories, posts and pictures.
Dad, Bobby, Mom and Gary with Bessie Miracle
                                                                          
Dad, Bobby, Mom and Gary with Bessie Miracle in Bessie and Pat’s house around 1957.  Not sure about date.  Pat and Bessie loved their two little dogs. I think they were Pekingese.  I think this was at the house across from Sarah Childers IGA store.  We lived beside them up there as well as across the street down on Superior.  Not sure what this street name was.

Posted On Bobby Cox page!

Bobby E. Cox – 1953 – 1987

By Joe Cox for my Dad!

Bobby E. Cox was a good father to me.  Most of my memories were when he lived on 380 outside of Xenia (the house that burnt down) and then on Old Winchester Trail.  Dad enjoyed hunting, fishing, rooster fighting and women! <grining>

Dad was the kind of guy that loved his music.  I always remember riding in the car and the truck and he would have something “cheesy” playing and he would sing to me…then as I got older we would sing together.  One of the best was he got a new answering machine (when they first came out) and he put the song by Lionel Richie “Hello…is it me you’re lookin for?” as the recording.  He was proud of that!

Dad loved to go hunting.  I used to love going rabbit, pheasant and squirrel hunting with him.  He would always tell me about how he went huntinq with his brother…I never knew which brother, but he always said he would hunt when he was my age and he would feed the WHOLE family.  I am not sure if it was a “story” or if it was true!

More to come….but for now…Dad you were the best and you will always be missed!